Time spent in pain and suffering is wasted if you do not take the opportunity learn from these times. Rooted and stuck in those terrible disappointments and agonizing losses? Look upward and forward. You will be all the better for them if you choose respond with earnest. It will then be you that grows through, stronger than ever. Don’t wilt and fade. Rise – you never know what you’ll be able to be and create as a result. It will likely be glorious.